I am a pretty easy going person, and it really doesn't bother me when people come up and say odd things or offer me weird pieces of advice about how to raise my baby. But today I wished looks could kill. Ok, not really. I wouldn't kill anyone over something stupid they said, but I wish he knew how much I did not appreciate his comment.
I was at the commissary doing my grocery shopping and this older gentleman became my "aisle buddy" - the one I would run into on every aisle because he was going one way and I was going the other, so we'd bump into each other at some point in each aisle. He was pleasant and would chat to me every time we passed each other and would try to get Judah to smile or chatter to him.
For whatever reason Judah would NOT smile or chat to anyone. I think he was embarrassed because he'd pooped his pants. *smile* Anyways, Judah would just stare at everyone with his eyes wide open.
The man must have gotten offended, or frustrated, or SOMETHING, because he finally says to me:
I was at the commissary doing my grocery shopping and this older gentleman became my "aisle buddy" - the one I would run into on every aisle because he was going one way and I was going the other, so we'd bump into each other at some point in each aisle. He was pleasant and would chat to me every time we passed each other and would try to get Judah to smile or chatter to him.
For whatever reason Judah would NOT smile or chat to anyone. I think he was embarrassed because he'd pooped his pants. *smile* Anyways, Judah would just stare at everyone with his eyes wide open.
The man must have gotten offended, or frustrated, or SOMETHING, because he finally says to me:
"You know, you should really get your baby out more so he socializes with people."
EXCUSE ME?!
I have all these lines in my head to use if people say rude things to me - the Nov '07 BabyTalk magazine had some great lines:
If someone says "Is that formula you're feeding your baby?"
You say "Is that soda you're giving your 6 year old?"
If someone says (which they won't, b/c I don't have twins, but this one is hilarious!) "Twins! Was it fertility drugs?"
You say "A double chin! Was it cheeseburgers?"
If someone says "She's not still in diapers, is she? At her age she really should be using the potty."
You say: "You're not still in underpants are you? At your age you should be wearing Depends."
Ok, so I would *never* say any of those, but they are tucked away in my head and will give me a giggle if anyone says something that could warrant that response.
But an unsocialized baby?! I was speechless, but even now I can't think of a clever response that I could have given him!
After that comment I re-routed my aisle shopping so that I didn't have to bump into him again.
So, any clever come backs I could have used?
If someone says "Is that formula you're feeding your baby?"
You say "Is that soda you're giving your 6 year old?"
If someone says (which they won't, b/c I don't have twins, but this one is hilarious!) "Twins! Was it fertility drugs?"
You say "A double chin! Was it cheeseburgers?"
If someone says "She's not still in diapers, is she? At her age she really should be using the potty."
You say: "You're not still in underpants are you? At your age you should be wearing Depends."
Ok, so I would *never* say any of those, but they are tucked away in my head and will give me a giggle if anyone says something that could warrant that response.
But an unsocialized baby?! I was speechless, but even now I can't think of a clever response that I could have given him!
After that comment I re-routed my aisle shopping so that I didn't have to bump into him again.
So, any clever come backs I could have used?